Randy Lee Whitley

Randy Lee Whitley, age 66, passed away on November 8, 2026, at his home in Alexander County. He was born on May 13, 1960, in Wilkes County. His passing leaves a deep absence in the lives of those who knew and loved him, and he will be remembered as a man of great heart, generous spirit, and wholehearted love for his family.

Randy was of the Baptist faith, and he moved through life with a kindness that touched many people. He was known as someone who loved helping others and would help anyone in need, the kind of man who would give the shirt off his back if someone needed it. He lived life to the fullest, carrying a “go big or go home” spirit that shaped the way he approached the world and the people around him.

In his working life, Randy found deep pride in building Way To Go Retail Services from the ground up. It was an achievement that meant much to him, not only for what he created, but for the business family who shared in that journey. His work reflected the same generosity and commitment that shaped the rest of his life.

He found joy in simple and lasting pleasures. Randy enjoyed trout fishing, skeet shooting, music, and football, pastimes that reflected both his love of the outdoors and his appreciation for good company and shared moments. More than anything, however, he loved and cherished his family, and he especially treasured his grandchildren, who held a dear place in his heart. The memories he created with them will remain a lasting treasure to those he leaves behind.

At the center of Randy’s life was his family. He shared 40 years of marriage with his wife, Melodie Millsaps Whitley, a partnership marked by enduring love and devotion. He is also survived by his children, Cameron Whitley, Megan Medlin and her husband, Ben, and Morgan Whitley. His family circle continues through his grandchildren, Anna and Aidan Whitley, Merit Medlin, Archer Medlin, Patton Medlin, Hank Medlin, and Kirby and Van Reid, each of whom brought him great pride and happiness. He is also survived by his brothers, David Whitley, Phillip Whitley and his wife Becky, Gary Whitley and his wife Kathy, Bobby Whitley and his wife Margaret, and Johnny Whitley; mother-in-law, Vernell “Mamaw” Sharpe that loved him like her own son. His love for his family was deep and steadfast, and the memories they shared with him will remain a lasting source of comfort and gratitude.

Randy was preceded in death by his father, Clyde Whitley, and his mother, Juanita Martin Whitley.

A Celebration of Life, open to all who knew and loved him, will be held at 2:00 pm on Sunday, November 15, 2026, at Amity Creek Farms, 6088 Petra Mill Road, Granite Falls, NC 28630. Following the service, everyone is invited to stay for a barbecue meal, fellowship, and sharing stories until 5:00 pm. Attire is casual. Please dress warmly, as it may be chilly; heaters and blankets will be provided.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Scouts of America, PO Box 152079, Irving, TX 75015-2079.

Those who loved Randy will remember a man whose life was defined not only by what he enjoyed, but by how deeply he cared. His kindness, his readiness to help, his love for his family, and the joy he found in living fully will remain with all who had the blessing of knowing him.

Funeral arrangements have been entrusted to Alexander Funeral and Cremation Service.

Online Condolences may be sharded with the family at https://www.alexfuneralservice.com/obituaries/randy-whitley