ETIQUETTE

Etiquette For Services At Alexander Funeral And Cremation Service

Do:

  • Watch over children to ensure their safety.
  • Follow our cemetery guidelines.
  • Respect cemetery visiting hours.
  • Follow the marked roadways.
  • Be respectful by keeping quiet around visitors who wish to reflect.
Flowers and a Monument

Avoid:

  • Stay longer than you want to. It’s all about what you’re comfortable doing, don’t feel that you need to linger if you’ve celebrated your loved one in a way that feels right to you.
  • Be afraid to laugh and share happy memories and stories. Laughter and telling happy stories can be the best medicine on the road to healing.
  • Feel that you need to look at the deceased. If this is something you’re not comfortable doing, there is no need to do so. A service is about your comfort level and your desire to celebrate the person in a way most meaningful to you.
  • Let your children be too loud and disturb others. As always, respect others and practice awareness.
  • Leave your cell phone ringer on. No one needs that additional noise when they’re trying to reflect.
  • Be afraid to make a mistake or do something wrong.
  •  You are doing something right just by coming and caring.

Cemetery Etiquette

Do:

  • Watch over children to ensure their safety.
  • Follow cemetery guidelines.
  • Respect cemetery visiting hours.
  • Follow the marked roadways.
  • Be respectful by keeping quiet around visitors who wish to reflect.

Avoid:

  • Take photos of other visitors or funerals.
  • Litter.
  • Walk over graves.
  • Disturb flowers or plants on the grounds.

Showing Support

There are no right or wrong ways to show support. You are being a source of support by simply coming to the funeral service. However, another great way to show support to the family is through sharing memories and stories of their loved one. You can also offer gestures of support by purchasing flowers or small gifts, such as a card, food, books or personalized gifts that reflect memories of the deceased.

Thank you!

If you have any questions or concerns please Contact Us.

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